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Tips for Building a Relationship with Your Grandchildren as Step-Grandparents

By Nottage and Ward on April 26, 2012

Remarrying can have a substantial impact on children after a divorce, but it is not just the step-parent and step-child dynamic that creates challenges for a new family. The step-grandparents also have obstacles to overcome while trying to build a strong relationship with their new step-grandchild or grandchildren. The grandparent-grandchild relationship is very special, but fitting into that role can be very difficult for a step-grandparent, according to The Huffington Post. The following tips can help a step-grandparent navigate the complicated waters of the step-grandparent – grandchild dynamic:

    1. Recognize that establishing trust with a preteen or teenage step-grandchild may take longer, but that does not mean that you can’t achieve it;
    2. Send a card on birthdays and special occasions to show you care. Emailing or calling to say hello occasionally is also good, but don’t overdo it, especially with older step-grandchildren;
    3. Avoid overcompensating, as it can affect your relationship with biological grandchildren. Keep your treatment of each fair, but distinctive;

  1. Remember that your step-grandchild may resent the remarriage, but is still looking for acceptance;
  2. Resist complaining to your child about your step-grandchild, even if he or she has been making your efforts more difficult;
  3. Be careful not come on too strong as a step-grandparent. Remember that you are a stranger to your step-grandchild;
  4. Make the effort to become acquainted with each of your step-grandchildren individually;
  5. Find a common ground. You may need to meet your step-grandchild halfway.

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