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Chicago Divorce Inquiries Spike After the New Year, Say Studies
The first Monday after the new year always means a significant increase in inquiries by people who are considering a divorce. The trend is so well-known that in Great Britain it even has a name: “Divorce Day.”
Here in the United States, studies have found that calls to divorce attorneys rise 20 to 30 percent in the first weeks of the new year. Some attorneys compare it to a “New Year’s resolution.” They note that for many people, the conclusion of the holidays–plus the potential represented by the new year–are enough of a push for them to seek the advice they need to make a change.
Why Do Some Long-Term Illinois Marriages End in Divorce?
Divorce is often viewed as something that happens early in a marriage, but many couples decide to end their relationships after several years together. These late-in-life divorces are becoming increasingly common, especially as societal norms change.
How to Face Your Fears During Divorce and Conquer Them
During any divorce, the two most common negative emotions people experience are anxiety and fear. These are understandable feelings. You’re stepping away from everything you know, into a future where all the details – from your financial health to the time you spend with your children – are uncertain.
Tips To Survive a High Asset Divorce
Any divorce is a difficult situation. But, when you have a high net worth, a divorce can be even more complex and stressful. You have to not only work through the emotions of ending your marriage, but have to also defend yourself and the financial assets you’ve worked so hard to build. In negotiating the terms of a high asset divorce, an experienced Chicago lawyer can help sort through you and your spouse’s financial details. Items like retirement accounts, stocks, and real estate will need to be equitably split between you and your ex. A lawyer can also investigate your financial situation to make sure all assets are found and shared in your divorce. Contact Nottage and Ward, LLP to discuss your situation.
Four Tips for Divorce Self-Care During the Holidays
Divorce is never easy. If you’re facing your first set of fall and winter holidays while separated, working through a divorce, or as a newly-divorced Chicagoan, you may feel anxious, depressed, or simply numb – as if you have no desire to celebrate at all.
Three Tips for Choosing the Right Chicago Divorce Lawyer for You
Making the decision to divorce is never easy. When you choose the right divorce lawyer for you and your needs, you gain an ally who’ll stand beside you and help navigate the divorce process and protect your legal rights.
Should You Go for Divorce Mediation?
Perhaps the most stressful and hurtful part of going through a divorce is struggling over the division of property and assets. Even couples that have remained friendly can begin arguing once money is at stake. Some couples are unable to agree on terms of the division of property or child custody. So, in the end, they let the courts decide. Others find it much more efficient and cost effective to work with a neutral third-party mediator who can facilitate a negotiation that could end in an amicable resolution.
Why It’s Important to Find a Specialized Divorce Attorney
No two divorces are identical. Even though about half of all marriages end in divorce, each case is unique. Only you know what unique issues are important to you and your spouse. You may have property, custody issues, and other complications on the horizon that will require attention. Therefore, a one-size-fits-all divorce attorney will not fit your specific needs.
Even the most cordial of separations can get messy. Negotiations can become complicated when money, property, and children are involved. Your goals for the future may differ significantly from your spouse, so you may have to fight for your best interests. Remember that you have rights and your opinion matters.
Serving Divorce Papers over Facebook
After you have decided to get a divorce, you must file a divorce petition with the court. Then, you will have to serve your spouse divorce papers. This process allows your spouse to know that papers have been filed at the courthouse and that the divorce process has begun. This will also tell him or her what is being asked and how much time is left to respond. The court will then require proof that your spouse was served with the petition.
For some people, serving divorce papers is a complicated requirement. In one such case, a woman was granted the right to serve divorce papers via social media. According to a recent CNN news report, a Brooklyn woman has been given the right to serve her former spouse a summons for divorce via Facebook.
Planning for a Divorce
There are steps you can take to protect yourself and your family before going through a divorce. If you are about to get married or believe that you and your spouse are going to get divorced, it may be in your best interest to seek out a confidential, pre-divorce planning session. During the meeting, you can sign a retainer with the attorney, which will establish an attorney-client relationship.
During a pre-divorce planning session, you and your attorney will review where you are now, and where you would you like to be. Once you have a goal in mind, you can begin to develop strategies to obtain those goals. The process of getting a divorce and of living a post-divorce life will go smoother if you plan ahead.
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