Chicago Parental Alienation Attorneys

Are You in Need of a Chicago Parental Alienation Attorney?

Divorce and separation can be difficult for both parents and children, but when one parent deliberately undermines the relationship between the child and the other parent, the situation can becomes harmful. This type of behavior is known as parental alienation, and it may have devastating long-term effects on a child’s emotional development, and on the parent-child relationship.

A Chicago parental alienation lawyer can help you understand your rights, guide you through the legal process, and take necessary legal steps to protect both you and your child from the damaging effects of parental alienation. At Nottage and Ward, LLP, our legal team is skilled at addressing these complex issues and fighting for your family’s best interests.

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Why Choose Us Over Other Parental Alienation Lawyers in Chicago

Parental alienation is a serious issue that can impact both the parent-child relationship and the child’s emotional health. If you are in a situation where your child is being alienated from you, or if you suspect that your ex-partner is attempting to alienate you from your child, it is vital to take action quickly.

When dealing with parental alienation, it is essential to choose an attorney with the experience, dedication, and compassion to handle such a delicate matter. Here are some of the reasons why Nottage and Ward, LLP is the right choice for your case:

• Over 35 Years of Experience: Our attorneys have over three decades of experience in family law, with a focus on complex custody and parenting issues, including parental alienation.
• We Know How to Handle High-Conflict Cases: We understand the nuances of high-conflict family law cases and are equipped to deal with the challenges presented by parental alienation.
• Personalized Attention: We understand the emotional complexity of family law cases and provide compassionate, individualized support to each client.
• Proven Success: Our firm has successfully represented parents in cases involving parental alienation, securing fair parenting time arrangements and protecting the rights of the targeted parent.
• Comprehensive Family Law Services: As a family law-focused firm, we provide a full range of services to support you through the complexities of divorce, custody, and parental alienation.
• Commitment to Your Child's Well-Being: We prioritize your child's well-being and work to ensure that they are not caught in the middle of a custody dispute. Our goal is always to achieve a resolution that supports the best interests of the child.
• Recognized in the Martindale-Hubbell Bar Register of Pre-eminent Lawyers – A distinction awarded for legal excellence and ethical standards.

Is Your Ex Trying to Alienate You from Your Child?

Contact Nottage and Ward, LLP at (312) 332-2915 for experienced legal help and stand up to parental alienation.

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What Is Parental Alienation Syndrome?

Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) refers to a situation in which one parent systematically undermines the relationship between the child and the other parent. The alienating parent often employs psychological manipulation, subtle or overt coercion, and other tactics to turn the child against the other parent.

The syndrome is characterized by the following:

• The Child Rejects the Targeted Parent: The child may express extreme dislike or anger toward the targeted parent, often without any clear or justifiable reason.
• False Accusations: The child may make false claims about the targeted parent’s behavior, such as accusing them of neglect, abuse, or other forms of wrongdoing.
• Diminished Bonding: The relationship between the child and the alienated parent becomes progressively more strained, and the child’s bond with the alienating parent is typically stronger.
• Emotional Harm: The child may suffer from emotional distress, confusion, and anxiety as a result of the manipulation and pressure from the alienating parent.

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Examples of Parental Alienation

Parental alienation can manifest in various ways. Some common examples include:

• Refusing to Allow Contact: One parent may repeatedly refuse or cancel scheduled visitation or phone calls with the other parent, making it difficult for the child to maintain a relationship.
• Badmouthing the Other Parent: The alienating parent might make derogatory remarks about the other parent in front of the child or talk negatively about them during conversations.
• Making False Allegations: The alienating parent may make false accusations of abuse or neglect in an attempt to turn the child against the other parent.
• Encouraging Rejection of the Targeted Parent: The alienating parent may encourage the child to reject the other parent, telling them that the other parent does not love or care about them.
• Undermining the Child’s Relationship with the Targeted Parent: The alienating parent may create situations in which the child feels torn between both parents, making them feel guilty or anxious about spending time with the targeted parent.

If any of these behaviors are occurring, it’s important to seek legal counsel to address the issue before it further damages your relationship with your child.

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The Dangers of Parental Alienation

Parental alienation can have long-term and damaging effects on both the child and the targeted parent. Some of the dangers of parental alienation include:

• Emotional and Psychological Harm: Children who are subjected to parental alienation may experience depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, and feelings of confusion and betrayal. They may struggle with their ability to form healthy relationships in the future.
• Strained Parent-Child Relationships: Parental alienation can result in a permanent fracture in the relationship between the child and the targeted parent. This can cause long-term emotional distress for both parties.
• Long-Term Developmental Issues: Children who experience parental alienation may have difficulty trusting others, handling conflict, and developing healthy emotional coping mechanisms. They may also struggle with feelings of abandonment or guilt.
• Legal Consequences for the Alienating Parent: In some cases, parental alienation can result in legal consequences for the alienating parent, including a modification of custody arrangements, loss of parenting time, or even a change in custody if the court finds that the alienation is detrimental to the child’s well-being.

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How an Experienced Chicago Divorce Attorney Can Help

Dealing with parental alienation can be emotionally overwhelming, but a skilled lawyer can help you take the necessary steps to protect your relationship with your child. Here are some ways in which our attorneys can assist you:

1. Identifying the Signs of Parental Alienation: A lawyer experienced in family law can help you recognize the signs of parental alienation, which might include a child refusing to see or speak to you, making false accusations against you, or exhibiting behaviors that suggest they have been manipulated by the other parent.
2. Documenting the Alienation: Your attorney can help you gather and document evidence of parental alienation, including communications, witness statements, and any instances where the alienating parent has made efforts to undermine your relationship with your child.
3. Petitioning the Court for a Modification of Custody or Parenting Time: If you believe that parental alienation is occurring, your lawyer can help you petition the court for a modification of your custody or parenting time arrangement. This may involve requesting a change in the allocation of parental responsibilities or even a supervised visitation arrangement if necessary to protect your relationship with your child.
4. Working with Experts: In some cases, your attorney may work with mental health professionals, including therapists or custody evaluators, who specialize in parental alienation. These experts can provide valuable insight into the impact of the alienation on your child and may offer recommendations for the court.
5. Advocating for Your Child's Best Interests: A skilled attorney will advocate for your child’s best interests, ensuring that their emotional and psychological well-being is considered when determining custody and parenting time arrangements.
6. Helping You Deal With the Emotional Challenges: Parental alienation can be emotionally taxing, and having a compassionate attorney to guide you through the process can help reduce stress and ensure that you focus on the well-being of both yourself and your child.

Act Quickly to Stop Parental Alienation

Call (312) 332-2915 to discuss your case with a compassionate Chicago family law attorneys.

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Protecting Yourself and Your Child From Parental Alienation

If you are facing parental alienation, taking action to protect both yourself and your child is crucial. Here are some steps you can take:

1. Document Everything: Keep detailed records of any incidents of parental alienation, including missed visits, derogatory remarks, and any evidence of manipulation or false accusations. This documentation can be critical in court.
2. Stay Calm and Compassionate: While it is understandably difficult, try to remain calm and composed in your interactions with the alienating parent. Focus on maintaining a strong and positive relationship with your child despite the challenges.
3. Seek Professional Help: Consider seeking therapy or counseling for both you and your child to address the emotional toll of parental alienation.
4. Consult an Attorney: Work with an experienced attorney who can help you navigate the legal process and advocate for your rights and your child’s best interests.

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When Alienation Threatens Allocation and Parenting Time

If parental alienation is threatening your custody arrangement or parenting time, it is necessary to take immediate action. An attorney can help you petition the court for a modification of custody or parenting time based on the alienation and its harmful effects on your child. In extreme cases, the court may decide to award primary custody to the targeted parent or implement supervised visitation.

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Why You Should See a Child Custody Lawyer Right Away

Parental alienation can cause irreparable harm to both the child and the parent. Addressing the issue promptly is crucial to preventing further emotional distress and protecting your relationship with your child. If you suspect parental alienation, it is essential to consult with an experienced Chicago parental alienation attorney right away.

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What Clients Are Saying About Us

She has continuously looked out for my best interests-Anonymous (5-Star Avvo Review)

Leslie has been the strongest representation I could ask for in a very complicated emotional matter. She has continuously looked out for my best interests & the best interest of my son. Always prompt in getting back to me & keeping me well informed.

I am thankful that I had Jeffrey on my side- Lonnie (5-Star Avvo Review)

Terrific, aggressive attorney. Jeffrey is a force in the courtroom. Period. If you want an attorney who will aggressively and successfully advocate for you, then this is the attorney for you. I am thankful that I had Jeffrey on my side and not against me.

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Speak With a Trusted Chicago Parental Alienation Attorney Today

Our experienced Chicago child allocation lawyers are here to help you navigate the complexities of parental alienation and fight for the best interests of your child. Let us help you protect your family’s future.

Contact Nottage and Ward, LLP at (312) 332-2915 to learn more today.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is parental alienation?

Parental alienation occurs when one parent intentionally attempts to undermine or destroy the relationship between the child and the other parent. This can involve manipulative behavior, such as making negative remarks about the other parent, limiting contact, or making false accusations, all aimed at turning the child against the other parent.

How do I know if my child is being alienated from me?

Signs of parental alienation include your child refusing to see or speak to you without a valid reason, making negative statements about you, or demonstrating anxiety or hostility when it’s time for parenting time. Often, the child’s behavior changes suddenly, which can be a red flag.

What can I do if I suspect parental alienation?

If you suspect parental alienation, it is important to document any evidence of alienating behaviors, such as missed visitation or negative comments about you. Consulting with an experienced Chicago parental alienation attorney is essential to understanding your legal options and taking action to protect your relationship with your child.

Can parental alienation affect my custody or parenting time arrangement?

Yes. Parental alienation can significantly impact custody and parenting time arrangements. Courts prioritize the child’s best interests, and if a parent is found to be engaging in alienation, it can lead to a modification of custody or visitation orders, and even a change in primary custody in some cases.

What are the signs of parental alienation syndrome?

Parental Alienation Syndrome (PAS) is a condition where a child is so influenced by one parent’s negative behavior that they reject the other parent without cause. Symptoms include the child displaying unjustified hatred or fear toward the targeted parent, making false accusations, and showing a lack of empathy or remorse for the alienating parent’s behavior.

How can an attorney help in a parental alienation case?

An attorney can help by guiding you through the legal process, gathering evidence of alienating behavior, and petitioning the court for a modification of custody or parenting time. Attorneys often work with mental health professionals or custody evaluators to assess the effects of alienation on the child and develop a strategy for re-establishing a healthy relationship with the child.

What type of evidence is needed to prove parental alienation?

Evidence can include text messages, emails, social media posts, recorded phone calls, or testimony from witnesses who have observed the alienating behavior. Additionally, a family therapist or custody evaluator may provide expert testimony to show how the alienating behavior is impacting the child’s relationship with the targeted parent.

What are the long-term effects of parental alienation on a child?

The long-term effects of parental alienation on a child can include emotional and psychological distress, difficulty forming healthy relationships, depression, anxiety, and a distorted view of family dynamics. Children may struggle with feelings of guilt, confusion, and low self-esteem as a result of the manipulation.

Can the alienating parent be penalized for their actions?

Yes, courts can impose penalties on the alienating parent for engaging in harmful behaviors. Penalties may include a modification of custody, reduced parenting time, or even a change in custody if the alienation is severe. In some cases, the court may also order counseling for the child or the parents.

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Meet Our Skilled Chicago Divorce and Custody Attorneys

Leslie Fineberg

Leslie Fineberg is a skilled and compassionate family law attorney and a partner at Nottage and Ward, LLP, with over 25 years of experience in handling complex family law matters. She is known for her unwavering commitment to her clients, particularly in high-stakes divorce, custody, and parental alienation cases. Leslie’s true talent lies in navigating the sensitive issues surrounding family disputes and ensuring that her clients’ rights and the well-being of their children are prioritized.

Leslie has developed a reputation for being a tenacious advocate who is also empathetic to the emotional challenges that often accompany family law issues. Whether it’s negotiating custody arrangements, addressing parental alienation, or representing clients in contentious divorce proceedings, Leslie’s approach combines legal precision with a deep understanding of her clients’ personal needs and circumstances.

Jeffrey Knipmeyer

Jeffrey Knipmeyer is a highly experienced and dedicated family law attorney and a partner at Nottage and Ward, LLP, bringing over 15 years of practice to the firm. Known for his compassionate approach and unwavering commitment to his clients, Jeffrey focuses on providing strategic, thoughtful legal counsel in complex family law matters, particularly in divorce, child custody, and parental alienation cases.

With a deep understanding of Illinois family law, Jeffrey has successfully represented a wide range of clients, from those facing high-conflict divorces to parents seeking to protect their rights in the face of parental alienation. His experience allows him to navigate the intricacies of child custody disputes, ensuring that the best interests of the child are always at the forefront of his efforts.

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Additional Information

• The Danger Of Parental Alienation
• How Alienation Can Poison Parenting Time